Last week's blog, Are leaders born or made?, generated lots of interest, discussion and passionate comments. It's one of those questions that has become a cliché, often inciting knee-jerk, over-simplified responses based on well-grooved prejudices.
My own view is that leadership, like many aspects of the adult human condition, is all about paradoxes. This was also the conclusion of Jim Collins' team in the well-known 'Good to Great' 5 year research study, published in 2001. They found the No 1 quality of the highest performing businesses was what Collins termed "a paradoxical blend of servant leadership and a fierce resolve to do whatever it took to make the company successful".
Collins and his team resisted the instinct to label this critical characteristic of outstanding businesses 'servant leadership' because they felt it did not fully describe what they observed. On the one hand it was true that most of the top leaders they studied (by company performance) were underestimated because of their low-key, sometimes even shy and awkward, personal styles. These people were the antithesis of our cariacature image of a great leader. However, without exception they were also passionate, driven, resolute and determined, and over time each of them presided over business transformations that led to sustained, stunning financial performance. So they did NOT conform to the archetypal, rather scornful and demeaning picture of a servant leader.
This week I met John Noble, Director of the Greenleaf Centre for Servant-Leadership UK. We had a lengthy, meaty discussion, getting to know one another and exploring each other's ideas and experience.
Robert K Greenleaf (1904-1990) was an American executive who founded the Greenleaf Center for Servant-Leadership, originally known as the Center for Applied Ethics, in the US when he retired in 1964 after 40 years of managerial experience in industry. His experiences led him to conclude that the best leaders were indeed servant leaders, but that they were servants first, leaders second, NOT the other way round. He understood that it was crucial to have an ethic of serving other people hardwired into your psyche, or running through your core DNA (my terms), in order to be a truly great leader.
This might all sound a bit airy-fairy and philosophical; believe me, it isn't. Over the last 50 years the Servant-Leadership movement has grown in the US, where there are numerous Servant-Leadership companies, officially classified as such by the Greenleaf Center. Perhaps the best known is Southwest Airlines, a perenially famous case study. In the UK, John Noble told me that Jonathan Austin, founder and CEO of Best Companies Ltd, who run the annual Sunday Times Best 100 Companies awards, started out as a member of the Greenleaf Centre UK.
All the research I've read, along with my many and varied experiences of good and bad leadership, lead me to the compelling conclusion that the Servant-Leadership model is correct (you have to be a servant first, then a leader), as long as one also understands that this requires fierce, unyielding resolve and a smart giving, not naive giving, approach (see Adam Grant's 'Give and Take', 2013). There is compelling evidence that this gets better results, but it takes time, and that's where most leaders and organisations go wrong. Impatience, allied with greed and other forms of selfishness, do all the damage.
Whether you are prepared and able to be a Servant-Leader depends on a complex mix of variables, such as personality, upbringing, circumstances, role models, mentoring, and life experiences. For me leaders are to some extent 'born', since their personality is largely determined at birth, but overwhelmingly 'made' - conditioned by what happens to them and, crucially, how they choose to respond.
Great leaders are forged on the anvil of adversity - beaten into shape under intense heat. That's why there are so few of them. There are no short cuts - ego, talent, bravado or charisma are no substitute for prolonged, humbling experience.
Such experience is the only way to learn how to master yourself - the greatest challenge of all, as any leader deemed great by others, rather than by themselves, will tell you.
All of us must respond to our own particular circumstances, and find a way to excel within, or inspite of, those circumstances. It is a brutal fact that some people's circumstances are an awful lot easier than others - that was the core message of last week's blog.
There were many interesting comments on it. One that particularly impacted me came from a client whom I'm just starting to get to know. His honesty and insight inspired me. He spoke of his humble origins, and of a loving, strongly working class family whose relatively narrow environment and self-limiting beliefs restricted them, and potentially therefore him. However, what he describes as a 'fire' burned within him, and when, relatively late in his development, he began to meet people from working class backgrounds who had moved into professional careers and were not ashamed of it the flames inside him were quickly fanned and the direction of his life changed totally. Now his 18 year old daughter looks set for a career in international investment banking, and has caught the attention of a well-known female entrepreneur.
I have always said that I judge people on one thing, and one thing alone - character. All else is false, delusional and transitory. People who genuinely give of themselves, who genuinely serve others, but who are not stupid or naive, create a far better, happier, peaceful, more successful society, because they inspire others with the confidence and grit they need to overcome the odds, which for most of us, frankly, in most walks of life, are intimidating. That's why we need each other.
John Noble gave me a copy of the poem The Paradoxical Commandments, written in 1968 by Dr Kent M Keith, a leading figure in the Servant-Leadership community. He was just 19 at the time. 30 years later he discovered it had hung on the wall of Mother Theresa's children's home in Calcutta and everyone assumed she had written it! It goes thus:
People are illogical, unreasonable and self-centred – love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives – do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies – succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow – do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable – be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds – think big anyway.
People favour underdogs but follow only top dogs – fight for a few underdogs anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight – build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you do help them – help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth – give the world the best you have anyway.
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